As people who believe that all things are being made new, we can recognize – even in the brokenness of failure and in the hurt of people with whom we will never be able to reconcile – that we are not trapped in the worst things we have done. We can be better and are being made whole moment by moment. Reconciliation is in that hope of transformation. -Jeannie Alexander, Longing for Reconciliation, Disciplines 2022
I was reading the above devotion last week, and through the lesson, this stood out “Clenched fists, open hands.” Maya Angelou once said, “I’ve learned that you shouldn’t go through life with a catcher’s mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw something back.”
We would probably say that based on the number of images we see, many people are walking around with clenched fists. But I think there are more people than we know who are sporting open hands. A clenched fist signifies solidarity, but depending on the angle it’s coming from, it can mean anger, harboring a short fuse, and being ready to fight. Open hands, on the other hand (no pun intended), display an invitation that welcomes, reveals kindness, and offers compassion and help when needed.
Depending on the situation, a clenched fist may be necessary to defend, but open hands can be the peacemaker in a place where chaos and confusion rear their ugly head.
βThere is more power in the open hand than in the clenched fist.β β Herbert Newton Casson
Wonderful words of wisdom, my dear friend Kym πππ½ππΊ
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Awww, thank you sooooo much Phil. You da man my friend!!! π€π¦πππ
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Thank you for the wonderful Sunday Lesson today Kym. sooo true my friendβ£οΈ
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Most welcome sweet Kym π―ππ·
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I love this, Kym, and agree with your concluding remarks. More than ever these days, we need to find a balance between the fist and the open hand.
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Enlightening and inspiring, my dear Kym. Iβve actually been reflecting on this topic in a different way, in regards to clenched fists and toes, from carrying anxiety. Itβs amazing how the body begins a relaxation process as we work through those things in life which cause us angst. Similar to this conversation, as, if we are always anxious, we will more likely show up from a space of defense, rather than openness. Loved this piece, my kindred! Happy Sunday! π₯°ππΉπ³ππ§‘π€π
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Awwww, and thank you too Cindy. But you need not worry about a clenched fist because your hands are open all the time my dear! Much love girlfriend. πππ
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Oh girlfriend, speak Rosaliene. ππΌ Your words are so true. Thank you! π₯°β¨πππ
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Your words are so powerful Kym. I’m definitely an open-hands kinda gal. ππΊπ¦ππ
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Oh Jeff, I believe that we can have a conversation so incredible for hours, just talking about these things in life. There are so many variables involved in carrying around anxiety that only breaks our backs and makes us bend over in excruciating pain from stuff that simply does not belong to us. Sometimes those clenched fists are from angst brought on by others and we end up holding their luggage.
So glad this piece resonated in a deep, profound, and revelatory way with you my dear kindred. Thank you as always for shedding a bright light on the facets of life! Hugs and smooches. Make the rest of your day FANtabulous! πππβ¨π₯°π¦π
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Thanks so much Sandra and oh yes ma’am, your hands are definitely wide open!!! π€ππΌπππΌπ€
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Ah! I completely agree, maybe we could chat for days! π Ah, I agree with you about carrying other peoples luggage too. Iβve done that before. Well, for a long time actually, no more. Thank you, my kindred! Hugs and smooches! π€β€οΈπΉππ§‘π₯°π
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“There is more power in the open hand than in the clenched fist”…
Wow! Wow! Wow! Wow! Wow! Wonderful post! Dear Kym, you are a wise woman.
Thank’s for share, so inspiring, enlightening, invietes to reflect more deep…
Have a lovely day full of special moments! Enjoy tea time!
Abrazote!!!
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Thanks for reflecting on this message Elvira. That means so much to me my friend. Enjoy your evening too and and relax my dear. Abrazote! π€©ππ€πππ¦π₯°πβ
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You are welcome, dear Kym.
You are so kind and sweet dear friend. A pleasure follow your blog is amazing! Always makes me reflect.
Enjoy your evening too! ππ€ππ₯°ππ€©π§π«βπ₯ββ¨π₯ Abrazote!!
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Oh Elvira, you are so very sweet and I appreciate you girlfriend. Have a delightful day! Abrazote mi amiga! πβ¨π₯°πΆπ€ππ€©ππ
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Your post is absolutely right on, dear Kym!
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Thanks so much for that Dawn. Much appreciated! π€ππΌπ₯°
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Thank you very much dear Kym.
You are kindness in person. I appreciate you as well friend.
Abrazote mi amiga! ππ₯°ππΈπβ¨π₯βΊοΈ
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You are absolutely welcome my dear friend! Abrazote! π₯°ππΌπ€©π₯πππ€π¦π
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Always a pleasure, dear Kym.
Abrazote mi amiga! ππ₯°ππ€©π€πΈβ¨π₯
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