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“Focus on being productive instead of being busy.” -Anonymous
The grind is real, or so they say. Oh, honey, don’t you know I have to frequently put myself in check when I am reminded of the above quote? Sometimes, I am supercharged and hyperactive when I am trying to fulfill my so-called time management schedule with my daily tasks. So when I question the quality of my busyness, the answer must meet the criteria of quality accomplishments beyond a reasonable doubt, or else I find myself depleted of energy, stressed out, and starting over again. I must be committed and make sure I am not entangled by my choices of mass societal influences with a flight crew of stress.Β
Are we burning out so fast with overzealousness that we are creating a bomb of burnout? Are we swelling into a busyness trap from the vapors of energy? I know I don’t need to give you a step-by-step method or list about how to reduce our overwhelm resulting from busyness. We reflect on how we have been trained and conditioned to stay busy, thinking this would lead to productivity but does it? Do we gain any traction of productivity in response to our weaponry of busyness? Are we truly being efficient or merely becoming a representation of the concept of being busy just to stay busy? Well, if you are feeling worn out and tired, recheck your schedule and “busyness list” of things to do. Can you delegate some of the items on your busyness list to someone else? Or is there a need to delete or rearrange some items on that list to give you breathing room to make some quality accomplishments? Check yourself before you wreck yourself! (as rapper Ice Cube would say)
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Yeah “life is what going on while we are busy with something else” (John Lennon). Many even miss listen to what our own bodies try to tell us.
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A bomb of burnout…I can picture it. In fact I know people in that state. More bomb shelters needed!
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Kym, your post certainly resonates. I’m planning to take Anonymous’ advice, βFocus on being productive instead of being busy.β to heart this year.
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a sound wise observation and write Dear Kym! Not me.. lol
π Me? You’re not talking to me are you daaaaawlink? π€£
You gotta go see Kamila post from yesterday.. it’s spoken word of such. It’s hysterical.
hugs and love my friend!~ π
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Oh my gosh, you are so right. We have to pay attention and listen more, because we miss so much when we don’t! Thank you for that! πβ¨π€
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LOL, girl Kathryn I am so there with you…more π£π£π£ bomb shelters needed! Stay well my sweet friend. Hang in there! π₯°ππ
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Oh thank you so much Khaya. And add a little bit more PLAY in there, and sistah, you got a deal!!! πͺππ’ Hugs and smooches my friend. π€ππ
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Cindy…what am I going to do with you my Poetic Mommy Nature? π€£ππ Yeah, I don’t call you Energizer Bunny for nothing!!! LOL Just grab a glass of your favorite poison πΉπ₯πΈ and run Forrest run!!! ππΌββοΈππΌββοΈππΌββοΈ
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π You got that … pick our poison and off we go. love it Kymdawwwwwlink! π
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Productive vs busy, a huge difference! Too many of us fail to differentiate between the two. We make that mistake at our own peril!
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An important reminder! Thanks.
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Wow! Wow! Wow! Wow! Wow! Dear Kym, its an amazing post, as always you surprises us with a very wise advise. Being productive itΒ΄s one thing, we must be organized. Love part of (as rapper Ice Cube would said) Thank’s for share! Have a lovely evening and relaxing tea time! Cheers!
Abrazote mi amiga!!
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So glad you get me Cindy dawwwlinkkkkk!!! Have a lovely evening my dear! πππ₯°
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Oh my gosh Brian, I agree. I have never seen so many people as I have of late, becoming stressed out and depressed from running around in circles and as you said, not differentiating between busyness and productivity. UGH!!! π
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Oh my dear Rosaliene, thank you so much. Trust me, it was a great reminder for me too! LOL π₯°ππ
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Oh my dear Elvira, I am so happy this resonated with you. Thank you so much my dear friend. I always appreciate your kindness and thoughtfulness. πβ¨π
You too have a relaxing evening and a great week. Abrazote mi amiga! π€βπππ₯°β¨ππ₯
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Why do you think so many people now? I suspect some of it is the economy and uncertainty of the market. People worried about their jobs. People still getting used to post-pandemic. Imbalance of the work-life scale. Other things?
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Thank’s dear Kym for your kindness.
It’s a great advise, wise woman.
Have a lovely evening and a great week ahead! Abrazote mi amiga! ππ₯°πππΈπ§π«ββ¨π₯
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We’re clones in every way.. hahahaha good ,bad and the ugly. Wait, we ain’t ugly!! β£οΈπ
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My dear Brian, probably all of the above. π« I also think that people are trying to achieve something a little more difficult and aggressive than they expected and the let down makes them disappointed. I have seen how so many people set some lofty goals that are too difficult to achieve, even if they remained busy 24/7.
Yet whatever the reasons, people are stressed out from over-exertion and over extending themselves…but that is just my two-cents! π
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You’re very welcome Elvira. Abrazote mi amiga! πππβπ€
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Sounds accurate to me. Similar to what Iβve seen in others.
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LMAO!!! πππ€£ Cindy, I can always count on you to keep things real. Girl, you got me over here bustin’ my britches laughing! I’ll drink to that 100%! ππ₯πππΉπ
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Oh yes indeed my friend! π
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Dear Kym, always a pleasure.
Abrazote mi amiga! πβΊοΈπππΊπ§π«ββ¨
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You said that right, check yoself before you wreck yourself. I have seen myself go down the wreck yoself path way to many times. Done with that!
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This was much needed post! Thank you for sharing this. π
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Girl Belladonna, I get you girlfriend. I agree…done with dat!!! π€πΌπ€πΌ
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You are so very welcome Sowjanya and thank you for your kind comment my friend. π€ππΌπ₯°
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