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I’m not even trying to go there, so don’t think about starting a fight because you won’t win…that’s of course, unless you are fighting yourself. Then have at it.
I know many of you have faced and probably will face predicaments where it feels like you’ve been thrown into a fighting ring, and you don’t know who, why, or what you are wrestling, boxing, or kickboxing with. Look yall, people try to lure you into a fight that you weren’t looking to participate in because you didn’t sign up to fight. You were simply minding your own business right?
I realize that somehow, even as you try to steer clear of unnecessary confrontations, someone targets you for their bullish reasons and narcissistic attitudes just to throw you off of your game. Such individuals want to pick a fight with you for some of the silliest reasons, no matter how peaceful of a creature you may be. Do I speak from experience? Yep, you betcha ya! That’s from decades of learning experiences I don’t discount, and from people, I would never have expected such behavior to come from. Yet, these are lessons that prepare me to be on the lookout for the tumultuous signs that pop up from time to time. I wonder why, but I don’t worry why. Neither should you.
Long story short…I’m not trying to pick a fight with anyone. So heed the warning…”Don’t start nothin’ it won’t be nothin’.”
Aye! Yaaasss!
‘”Don’t start nothin’ it won’t be nothin’.”’
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Well said, Kym! I agree. It’s like you are driving safely and cautiously but someone drunk or otherwise, comes over from nowhere and hits you.
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There you go trE! Need we say more??? 🤔
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Now Kaushal, that is a great analogy my friend. I couldn’t have said it any better. Thanks a million! 😍🥂🥰
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Haha!
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I hear 🎧🦻you Kym dawwwlink.. Imagine that.. lol😂
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that’s me….it cost me a job, but, dealing with things said that I didn’t want to deal with anymore told me the best choice was to walk away…
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Hi, my name is Anna. I am sub-blogging for a friend. I had that to happen twice.
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I think you’re the one Alma told me to tell hello and asked how are you ding? If not, then I humbly apologize. 🙂 Alma had to take a break to work on finishing up her books but she hasn’t forgotten you guys.
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Now, my post: I say knock their butt out if they start some mess.
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You’re more than welcome, Kym 😊💐
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Thank you! It also happened to me once.
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Don’t start no mess won’t be no mess!!!! Folks know when you are feeling nothing but joy. They will come around trying to steal it right from under you.
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Yeah girlfriend, imagine that!!! LOL 🥊😲🥊😱🥊 Hugs and smooches dawwwwlinkkkkk!!! 😘
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Nice and congrats for the guest blogging! 👏🏼
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Thanks so much Anna and please give Alma my regards. I appreciate you passing on the message! 🙏🏼 I know what it’s like with the editing and proofreading process with getting your books done. Tell Alma, no worries, just do what she has to do as long as she has to do it. Take care! 🥰💖🤗
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Oh yes indeed! That is when you say, “BACK OFF…NOW!!!” 😂😝🤣
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🤗💖🥰
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Honey chile…and as foolish as they may be, they know what buttons to push and which ones to keep their crummy little fingers away from! 😠🥊😜
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Words that need be said, because however peaceful and nonconfrontational our path might be, bullies have a way of showing up. When it happens, which is hopefully not often, there are many lessons to learn, including not letting them derail our goals and sincerest of intentions, with their petty nonsense. 🤗💗✌🏻
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Oh yes girlfriend, never allow them to derail your goals or your character. We are better than that, BUT…if they hit first, I am not going to turn the other cheek! LOL 🤣😝😂 Hugs and smooches girlfriend and make this a fantastical evening! Muah!!! 😘💋🥰
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Wow! Wow! Wow! Wow! Wow! Wow! Wow! Wow! Wow! Wow!
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Wonderful post! Dear Kym you are very wise woman, it´’s true, why fight?
But I think when someone try to fight with a peaceful person, the problem, that poor person needs a lot of attention, or feel powerful, but if we ignored them or let them and just leave, it’s better. Fight is a waiste of time, affect our health and good mood…
Thank’s for share dear freind. Have a peaceful and lovely evening, relaxing with a delicious cup of tea listening a great podcast Poetry, Pastries & Pies… Cheers!!!
Abrazote mi amiga!!!
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That’s the truth!!!! And they are crummy ashy little fingers! LOL
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Amen to that! 🙌🏻 Hugs and smooches back at ya!
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💞🤗
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Even a teddy bear, poked too many times, can be a grizzly bear, if you take a closer look! 🧸🤔😊
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Angry people everywhere. Sometimes even making eye contact is offensive. It’s a sad reality. Too many lonely people looking for a fight. Stay away!
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Oh my goodness Elvira, I agree with everything you said. I think you’re right about walking away and ignoring those trouble makers. Fighting…unless it is worth it, like self-defense for example, is to walk away. We have to maintain some sense of peace in our spirit. Thanks so much for your wisdom. 🙏🏼
You too have an enjoyable evening. Don’t sweat the small stuff my dear. Abrazote! 🥰💖😊🥂😘
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Girl, you are so funny with your descriptors…crummy, ashy little fingers! LMAO! ✋🏼🤲🏼🤚🏼 Girl, you are a mess!!! 😂😜🤣
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I receive that! 🤗💖😘🦋😍
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Oh my gosh Warren, that is so funny but you made a very valid point there my friend. Thank you so much for chiming in with your loving humor and insight! 😘💖🤗🙏🏼😊🧸
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Girl Selma, don’t you know it. It is truly sad. I don’t need anyone to pick a fight with me because I can do that all by myself. And you’re right about the eye-contact. What the what??? 👀👁👓👁🗨😝 UGH!!!
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That’s what I believe, thank’s dear Kym, we agree. If we are in peace our vives are just like thar. Aww!!!
So glad you share it. ,🙏🥰💖😘🧁🫖☕🥂 Enjoy your evening too! ☺️🧋🍹 Abrazote mi amiga!
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🙏💖💖💖
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Some people just like confrontation and turmoil. Best thing is to avoid them! 😉
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My pleasure!
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LOLOLOL
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We’ve had neighbors like that – people who just want to test your limits and see what they can get away with!
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Guuurrrrrlllll…for their own safety, they need to step away from the car. Don’t people like that just bite your britches? And why? Beats the living crap out of me. 😝
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Yes, yes, yes Elvira! Thank you for that my friend. Abrazote! 😊🧸😘🥂🥳💖🤗☕🥰
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You are so right Tom. Just as long as they do not touch me while I am avoiding them, that would be in their best interest and mine! LOL 😜😂😝
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😂😜🤣
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I know, they just want to get in your face and pick a fight for no reason. I guess it makes them feel powerful or something. Have a blessed Sunday tomorrow!
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Dawn girlfriend, it really does sound like you too had some first hand encounters. I think folks like that are soooo unhappy and they want to pick a fight with people who exude joy in their spirit. Nah, we ain’t havin’ it girlfriend!!! Here’s to a delightful week! 🤗🥂🤩
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Officially spring now!
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Oh girl yes!!! We have a few more days of freezing temps this week, and then spring temps return! Whoooohooooooo!!! 🌷🌼💐🌹🌺
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It’s still cold and dreary here but my cherry tree blossomed and the doves built a nest, so spring is coming!
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Indeed. I am with the doves! LOL 🌷🌻💐🌹🌷
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I think most I encounter are hard headed and stubborn. Words doesn’t work on them. They don’t seem to understand words. A fist works wonders. 😀
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I will tell her. You take care too. 🙂
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Thank you. I didn’t realize blogging was so time consuming. : I
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😂😜🤣 Now that is tooooooo funny!
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Thank you Anna. Take care! 😊✨🤗
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Oh honey, most people don’t. Rewarding, but indeed time-consuming! 😍 Stay well.
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Good to get to know you. 🙂
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😀
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I am learning. 🙂
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We all go through a constant and never-ending learning phase sweetheart. Don’t sweat it! 😍💖🤗
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Same here Anna! Stay well. 🙏🏼
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I won’t. But thanks for the encouragement. 🙂
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You too.
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Oh honey, you are absolutely welcome! 😘💖🥰
Kym
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