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There are some days when I feel like a log or a stick stuck in the mud because I’ve overexerted myself and need to take a break. Sometimes, it’s hard to simply relax and do nothing. Yet, I try to find something relaxing to engage in, like reading a book, decorating, sewing, crocheting, or listening to music. I think we all need to give ourselves permission to take a chill pill, tell everyone you’re taking the day or weekend off, that’s if you don’t have to work, and do whatever you want to do, whether it’s to go visit a spa, try a new restaurant, take a drive, visit a museum or gallery, and even check out a botanical garden or a garden nursery just to walk around and clear your head.
So what if it’s raining outside? Well then, get your inner kid on, go outside, and dance and sing in the rain like Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers! For those of you unfamiliar with who Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers are, they were dance partners in films from 1933 to 1939. If neighbors look at you like you’re going crazy dancing in the rain, just wave at them and continue dancing and singing. Maybe they will come outside and dance too. Your mood can be contagious, whether good or not.
Sometimes we get so bogged down in stuff (adult craziness) that we often cast our feelings and needs on the back burner and feel grumpy inside even if we try not to show it. Think of all the mental and health benefits you can take advantage of when you think about untethering yourself with other people’s issues and focusing on you for a change.
There is always a reason to be happy, so find it! And don’t feel guilty about it either. Here’s a little get-up and go to help get your mood-a-swinging, with Happy by Pharrell Williams! Have a FANtabulous day y’all!

Very true my friend. Often one feels stressed and overwhelmed due to the issues around us, not directly related to us. Taking time off is a great idea
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πΆSinging in the rainβοΈ Love it π
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Great post and song to start the week Kym
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I remember I used to feel guilty when I needed to take care of me, and then all of a sudden I dared anyone to get in my way fro doing me. We HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF US!
Now I’m sitting here dancing as I type this. Come on somebody…… we have church with this song!!!
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You got that right, Miz Kym. Love the song choice.
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most inspiring, Kym…and perfect timing too.
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This is my most favorite song of all time Kym! Love your inspiring post – much much needed today! Made me want to go out and enjoy the rain!! And everything else that makes my spirit up . Thanks so much π
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Yes! Listen that THAT voice. Especially when it tells us to slow down. With you! π₯°ππ₯°
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Thanks, Kym! Just what I needed today. I’m moving to the “Happy” beat π
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Very good words of wisdom, Kym – and an excellent song choice!
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My sister and brother-in-law usually visit on Sunday. We go to the French market, walk a bit, maybe get some lunch or a drink. Last weekend was raining, but they still wanted to come over, and do you know what? I thoroughly enjoyed walking in the rain. It was a great day that ended with hot drinks. i had a chai and thought, “We should do this more often.”
Thank you for reminding us to live like we did in younger years.
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I wholeheartedly agree Kymmm Dawwwwwlink.. we all have to take heed to our inner child and get out of our box.. Love this songβ£οΈππΌ
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I agree! Today, I couldn’t stand being at home anymore and doing the usual things, so I told my husband I was going to town because I needed a break. (He had also been driving me crazy all morning.) And today was the anniversary of my mother’s death, so I was feeling very sad and cranky. Since I couldn’t visit my mother’s grave, I visited the local cemetery and explored the older section. I prayed for my dead relatives and the people in the cemetery and felt better afterwards. It sounds crazy, but it reminded me of how we are all connected and end up in the same way. I also asked God to take care of a loved one who’s been a real jerk to me. I feel no ill will towards this person. I know he’s screwed up in the head, and I just want him to be happy and safe. I try to always be mindful of what other people are going through. And, dear Kym, I’m glad you and your family are safe after the horrendous storm!
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Oh yes Sadje. You’re so right about that. Sometimes we get so bogged down with other people’s stuff until we don’t know what happened or how we got there. Excellent point! Thank you! π€ππΌπ
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There you go Tam. We gotta turn it loose and let it go. Ain’t nobody got time for that! Thanks so much my sistah friend. πππ₯°
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Awwwww, thank you so much Maggie. May the magic of relaxation fill your your week my friend. Hope your weekend was extra spectacular! Hugs and smooches! ππ₯π
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LMAO! π€£ππ Let the church say AMEN Queen B! Ain’t nobody gonna turn your around, cause if they try, there’s going to be BIG TROUBLE! Blow your mind kind of BIG! I love your attitude sistah! π€πΌπ€πΌ
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Thanks a million Miz Pat! Now, if Helene thinks about coming back our way, we’re going to go outside and dance our butts off in the wind and rain. Take that you old hurricane! ππ€£π Be happy my friend! π
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Thanks so much for your kind words Destiny. I appreciate it and may you have an awe-inspiring week! Hugs and smooches! π₯°ππ
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Oh my dear Marie, your beautiful words are poetry to my ears! π€ Thank you so much for your enthusiasm and positivity my friend. I appreciate you! Now go on…and be HAPPY! ππ₯³π
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Thanks so much and have a HAPPY day! ππΆπ
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Oh my gosh Victoria, that “voice” speaks to us more than we listen to it. I am so happy that this resonated with you my friend. π Thanks so much for your kind words! Cheers to a wonderful week ahead! π₯°π₯π
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From what I am hearing about Helene’s impact on North Carolina, I think you were lucky to be in Charlotte. When I passed through the airport on Saturday, that part of the state looked normal. Poor Asheville didn’t do as well. We’ll br dancing in the rain if we don’t get blown or washed away.βπͺοΈβ‘π
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Honey Rosaliene, I had to regurgitate the craziness from this past week. π So when I thought about this song, which was one of my favorites from my Zumba class back in the day, it lit a fire in me that I couldn’t put out! π₯πΆπ€·π»ββοΈ I just hit replay repeatedly! LOL π€£ Thanks so much sistah! Make this a FANtabulous week! π₯³ππππ
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Xo! π₯°
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Thanks so much Steve! I appreciate that. ππΌ I needed a little pick-me-up this morning and what better way than to start off with this HAPPY song! May you have a very, merry and HAPPY week my friend. ππ₯π
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Oh wow Mary, how awesome! Girl, now that was a wonderful mood swing my friend. Yes, I agree with you, you have to turn some things loose, and cut some of those strings trying to make you perform like a marionette under someone else influence. Good for you and I agree, you must do that more often! Love this and cheers to FUN! βππΌββοΈπ
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Yes, yes, yes Cindy! We have to let other folks take care of their own drama, because it can tire you out and drive you bananas! πππ No bananas here dawwwwlinkkkkk!!! Have a FANtabulous week my Energizer G’mama! πππ₯°
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Bless you Dawn and I don’t see anything wrong with embracing a little nostalgia, even if it is in remembrance of our loved ones at a cemetery. ππΌ I can connect with your memories about your mother and I feel the same way when the day my mom passed away rolls around each year.
Sometimes, we have to just get up and go, even though we may not have a clue where we’re going, we just know we need a change of scenery! Honey, I get it. And girlfriend, my husband can work a nerve too, so a drive works well for me to get my bearings, if you know what I mean! π
But we have to take more frequent mental health days to avoid going bonkers! It’s safe for us, and honey, it’s safe for others! π€£π²π Have a FANtabulous week my friend. π
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Oh Pat, we were sitting here watching the horror unfold in Asheville and I was blown away that this occurred in the mountains but not in our coastal cities and towns. ππ»π Homes were floating by in the floods, leaving people helpless. These weather conditions are getting scarier and scarier! But until the next storm, dance your behind off in the rain…and be HAPPY Miz Pat! ππππ₯π₯³
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Just like the Pharrell song instructs, Miz Kym.
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my pleasure…and the same your way, Kym…π·π€ππ€
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Thanks and the same to you, Kym!
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A great post with a wonderful advise and a powering song (wich i love) Thank’s for share it!
My dear friend Kym you always find the way to moticate usfor being better and keep calm,
fine, happy. Have a lovely, relaxing and cozy evening: Cheers with a delicious cup of tea!
Abrazote mi amiga! Blessings!
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Girl I know that’s right and it won’t be good trouble like the late brother John Lewis talked about! I’m whoppin ass LOLOLOLOL
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Indeed my friend. Our own mental health is very important
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My pleasure Kym xox
I hope the same for you.
Much love πΉππΉ
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Oh my dear sweet Elvira, you always energize me with your kind and encouraging words mi amiga! Gracias! π€ππΌπ May your evening be awesome and so relaxing as always. Hugs and smooches! Abrazote! ππβπππ°π₯π₯°
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π€£ππ Guurrrllllll, thank you for keepin’ it real! Reminds me of Water Boy when he said, “Is that what you call opening up a can of whip ass?” π Yep! It’s all the way live! πͺπΌπ₯π¦΅πΌ
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Oh yes! ππΌ
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Awwww, I appreciate that Maggie. Sending much love, hugs, and smooches to you too my dear! πππ€
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LMAO!
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Within the rain, underneath the mud, lies the moments we so often blinded, by the craziness of life! But, even in those moments, our heart and soul can rise and above it, to let our spirit reign! Blessings! πππ½
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AMEN Warren! AMEN! πππΌπ₯°
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Yes, bring on the positive mood swings. What a great post! I love that you included visiting a botanical garden or garden nursery. And dancing in the rain. Nature baby!!
Shameless personal ad: Through my art, I bring the healing power of nature into homes.
Nature is absolutely amazing. It’s all around us, we should take advantage of it more often. xo
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Sandra my friend, I truly and humbly appreciate your kind words. And your personal ad is not shameless, it’s empowering and your work is a positive accent to those who share your love of nature. Mother is simply amazing as you said. Cheers my friend. π₯°ππ€π₯π
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You melt my heart! π₯°
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Awwwww Sandra! π₯°ππ€ππ
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Love this delightful post, dear Kym. I can’t think of a better way to get rid of those “moody” blues than putting on your dancing shoes. Something about your body and mind working together to get rid of the crazy and just relax! Nothing works better for me … even with aging, swollen joints and two left feet!
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LOL sistah Dora, you have me in stitches! π€£ But I agree, put on your dancing shoes or just go bare footed and let the music take you away! It is indeed relaxing regardless of the tempo! Keep dancing my friend. π₯°ππ
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Yes β₯οΈ beautiful
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Thanks so much my dear La Marr! ππ₯π I appreciate you! π€
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