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Habits. We all have them whether we are cognizant of how many we have or not. Now, this is not about those habits, you know, the clothing worn by nuns, but about our daily customs or practices. We develop routines, which inevitably become habitual. Yet, you can develop a good and healthy habit that can turn into a healthy and safe lifestyle routine. So often, unhealthy habits can create a cataclysmic effect on your overall well-being. Is there is a habit that you changed or maybe trying to break that has affected you or is negatively affecting your lifestyle?
You can always plug in or substitute a positive and progressive routine that morphs into a habit of hope which wipes out debilitating or destructive habits. When I worked on the changes I felt I needed to make in areas that impeded the progress I tried to make, I knew if I didn’t make immediate and necessary changes, I would remain in the ‘same’ place, just at a different time.
I also noticed if I tried to overdo or speed up my changes for long-term routines, I would fail and regress to my old methods of operation. But with bite-size digestible tweaks that developed into progressive and monumental changes for the better, I am not stressed or anxious but instead moved into my new frame of a healthy mindset and physical development.
If we have to make adjustments to break bad and destructive habits, let’s tackle those adjustments consistently and watch our routine’s progression reach heights it never before has. Our habits didn’t happen overnight. We consistently practiced these habits because we wanted to, whether or not they were unhealthy. The good thing about any habit that wastes our time, abuses our time, or consumes our time uselessly is that we can and must make up our minds to shift our gears and throw out the routine trash that backs up our mental, emotional, or spiritual pipes.
βOur habits didnβt happen overnight.β So it might take time for them to leave, but with determination they certainly will. Thanks for the sober thoughts. Bless you.
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Thank you, Kym, for the wise advice that if followed would improve our lives.
Joanna
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I began to walk more and drink/eat less upon retirement. I lost over 50 pounds and have kept it off for over 10 years. I am still losing weight but at a much slower pace. In my book, any year that I don’t gain weight is a good year, although losing weight is still better, Great post, Girlfriend.
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Sage advice for a Monday Kym and so very true !
It is possible to change habits if we choose to do so in the correct way…achievable ways.π
Thank you for another great post !πβ£οΈ
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Great reminders here, Kym. We do things that are hurtful to ourselves–negative thoughts as well as actions. It doesn’t have to be this way. Thank you for the push, my friend.
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The blessing of habits is that they save us time. The burden of habits is that we can go unconscious and miss an important awareness.
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Great advice Kym, we all have those bad habits that we struggle to remove and replace. As they say in Belize, Go Slow. Maggie
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“But with bite-size digestible tweaks . . . .” Great advice, my friend.
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I need to break the habit of not stretching before a workout and I need to make a habit of meditating!
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Your comment about “bite-size digestible tweaks” is the secret sauce! Small steps over time can make a big positive difference in our lives. Thanks for the Monday motivation! ππ»
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Oh my dear Selma, sometimes we can fall into the trap of habits, and become complacent thinking it’s normal because it has become normal. Oh brother! π²π€¦π»ββοΈπ« Thanks so much for your introspect my dear! πππ₯°
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Thanks so much Joanna. Old habits are hard to break sometimes, but it is possible, especially when those habits hinder our growth in other areas! Thanks so much for your insight my friend. πππΌπ
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And look at you my fierce warrior. And 50 pounds eh? What an awesome feat and a great new habit to have! You prove that when you put your mind to something, and you stay committed to making that positive change, you will succeed. So proud of you Miz Patsy Watsy! π€ππ₯°
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Thanks so much! πππ
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Yes, yes, yes Maggie…achievable ways indeed. This is why I stopped making New Year’s resolutions a few decades ago. I was setting myself up for failure. π£ I appreciate you chiming in my friend. Thank you! π€ππΌπ
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Oh my dear Mary, thank you and I agree with you π―%. The good thing is, we can change the things that work against, in bite sized pieces my friend. π₯°ππ Cheers!
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WHOA Kathryn, excellent point about the pros and cons of habits. I love your POV my friend!!! Thanks so much for your polished perspective! π₯°ππ€
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Thanks Kymmy Femmy. π€©π€£π€
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LOL Maggie, I love your insight and I am so with the saying in Belize. I tend to go slow a lot these days! πππ Thank you for chiming in my friend.
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Thanks a million Dora! No change…no change! Hugs and smooches sistah friend. π€ππ
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Girl Queen B, when we recognize what needs to be done, we have to press that recall button to remember to do those vital things that will only be a helpmate…especially stretching. Girl, if I don’t stretch before I mow the lawn, even soaking in Epsom Salt won’t help! UGH! ππ€¦π»ββοΈπ
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πππ€£ Guurrrrrllllll…
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Maybe Shimmy Kymmy?
Shake rattle and roll.
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Girl Pat, Michele Lee also calls me that and I do my best to bust a move every chance I get! π€£ππ½π I earn my title Shimmy Kymmy!
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Oh girlfriend, you are so on it! ππΌ Yep a little bit of unstoppable perseverance can make a monumental difference Michelina. I am still working on it! πππ
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Didn’t realize I was borrowing a nickname. Shimmy like nobody’s watching.
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Me too, I believe most of us are a work in progress. Your post gave me reason to reflect on how far I’ve come. ππ»ππ»π
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Wow! Wow! Wow! Wonderful post! My dear friend Kym as
always you know how to inspiring us. Some times we want
to do many things or change many situations at the same period.
Maybe just need to improve little by little changing and it
could be easier start to move to another step. Ofcourse all
of us need less stress. Thank’s for share it. Have a realxing,
cozy, lovely evening and tea time! Cheers!
Abrazote mi amiga!!!
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I can relate!!!! My bones are screaming.
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wonderful reminders and advice, Kym…we do tend to get lost to these habits and often forget that when it has a negative impact on us….we can change it to a positive.
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Exactly Kym π
I never make resolutions either π
It is my pleasure to read your posts my friend πβ£οΈβ€οΈπ₯°
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Guuuurrrrlllll Pat, I’m shimmying like somebody’s watching ladybug! Come join me will you? πππ½πΆ
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Girlfriend, you have achieved some amazing feats and you should be proud of that my Dancing Queen! Celebrate anyhow! π₯³ππ
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Oh yes, you are absolutely right my dear Elvira. Little steps lead to big changes. So glad this message resonated with you my dear friend. Gracias! Abrazote! πππ₯°ππΌπ€
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Guuurrrrlllll Queen B, you know the deal! π²ππ€£
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Absolutely Destiny! Thank you so much for your wonderful insight my friend. Much appreciated! π₯°ππΌπ€
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There’s a whole lot of shaking going on. Partay!!?
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Bless you Maggie. I truly appreciate your warm and kind comments my friend. Thank you! π₯°ππππ
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Thank you my Maven of Motivation. I cherish your support and friendship and your humor. ππ»
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Thank’s for your kindness and share interesting post dear friend Kym.
Gracias! Abrazote! ππ₯°πβΊοΈππ§π«βπ₯
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My pleasure always Kym β€οΈπΉππ€
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You drop the bomb on me ladybug!!! ππ½πΆππΌ Parrrrtaayyyy!!! πππ
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You can always count on me Michele my Belle! Hugs and smooches my Dancing Queen! Keep soaring! π±βππ¦ π
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You’re so very welcome my dear Elvira! Abrazote mi amiga! π₯°ππ€ππΌπβπ₯³π°πΊ
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My dear friend Kym ππ₯°ππ₯³ππ§π«ββ¨π₯ Abrazote mi amiga!
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I know and we appreciate you so! Thank you Ms. Maven of Motivation for always being a big picture big thinker. πππ»πCheers my dears!
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Awwww, thank you Michele my Belle. May you be showered with unlimited blessings my dear Dancing Queen. Hugs and smooches! πππππΌπ₯°
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You too, thank you for everything. πππ»π
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Awwww my sweet Michele, thank you too! π₯°ππ€ππ
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